Note: I’m not currently accepting new clients for any in-person activities. If you’ve seen me before, or you’ve already reached out and we’ve communicated, we’re still good to go.
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Love what I do and want to show appreciation? I accept gift cards to cleverswhatever@gmail.com. My favorites are Hotels.com, Target, and Starbucks gift cards.
You can also select something from my Amazon wishlist.
A gift or tribute is also a great way for a new person to show their respect and interest.
About Me
I’m a dominatrix and sessioner best-known for boxing.
Some of my other favorite activities include:
Flogging and Spanking
Rough Body Play
Face Slapping
Sensory Deprivation
Bondage
Foot Worship
Ball busting
Pet Play
Tickle Torture
Spitting
Chastity
Gender Exploration
Forced Feminization or Sissyfication
Sacred Kink
Why Boxing
A varsity hammer thrower in college, I have maintained my love of all things physical: running, lifting weights, hiking and backpacking, among others. After getting my personal training certification, I taught aerobics for about a year before returning to grad school. That was when I started boxing. At first, I took private lessons and worked the heavy bag as a stress reliever. Then I joined a local gym and started sparring. I love the intensity and the rush of boxing.
How I Approach BDSM/Kink
I’ve been practicing BDSM for about a decade, both privately and as a part of Midwestern kink communities.
Kink and BDSM are big parts of my identity as a person, my relationships, and my outlook on life.
People often ask me why I enjoy the things that I enjoy … like my sadistic side.
There are so many reasons that blend together. Because it’s taboo. Because it’s intense, and I feel alive during these scenes. Because it’s erotic and sensual. Because it makes me feel powerful and sexy. Because it’s so creative. And because it creates powerful connections between two (or more) people.
Did I mention the taboo? Yeah that …
But I think there are other reasons I’ll never understand or need to. Because I don’t need to justify why I enjoy what I enjoy or what turns me on.
And neither do you.
But it’s also just a hard question to answer because why I enjoy certain activities or certain scenes varies so much.
For instance, recently my submissive asked me to be cruel. He wanted me to tear him down, so that I could build him back up.
And you know why I specifically enjoyed being cruel to this man that I care about?
Because after a long period of time of calling him it and telling it that it was worthless, and then literally beating the lesson home … I looked him in the eye and made him tell me how he knew I really felt about him. I doubt that my high opinion of him ever mattered more.
That’s just one example.
At other times, I love BDSM simply because it fucking feels good!
While I’m particularly drawn to intentionally therapeutic BDSM, a friend reminded me that not everything needs to have a “goal.” (Sigh. I love goals.)
But he’s right. That whole being in the moment thing … that’s goal enough.
When you give in to your submissive side or interests you’ve held for so long but have been afraid to act on, I bet you’ll be turned on. You’ll feel alive. You’ll feel free.
For more, see my frequently asked questions.