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I offer services as a Professional Dominatrix.

I am very beginner friendly and would love to introduce you to the wonderful world of BDSM, fetishes, and other kinky fun.

I also welcome more experienced ministers and submissives.

Some of my favorite activities:

Flogging and Spanking
Rough Body Play
Face Slapping
Sensory Deprivation
Bondage
Tease and Denial
Pet Play
Tickle Torture
Spitting
Body Worship
CBT
Chastity
Gender Exploration
Forced Feminization or Sissyfication
Sacred Kink

I also offer dominant and submissive coaching and life coaching services (from the unique perspective of a dominatrix).

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How I Approach BDSM/Kink

I’ve been practicing BDSM for about a decade, both privately and as a part of Midwestern kink communities.

Kink and BDSM are big parts of my identity as a person, my relationships, and my outlook on life.

People often ask me why I enjoy the things that I enjoy … like my sadistic side.

There are so many reasons that blend together. Because it’s taboo. Because it’s intense, and I feel alive during these scenes. Because it’s erotic and sensual. Because it makes me feel powerful and sexy. Because it’s so creative. And because it creates powerful connections between two (or more) people.

Did I mention the taboo? Yeah that …

But I think there are other reasons I’ll never understand or need to. Because I don’t need to justify why I enjoy what I enjoy or what turns me on.

And neither do you.

But it’s also just a hard question to answer because why I enjoy certain activities or certain scenes varies so much.

For instance, recently my submissive asked me to be cruel. He wanted me to tear him down, so that I could build him back up.

And you know why I specifically enjoyed being cruel to this man that I care about?

Because after a long period of time of calling him it and telling it that it was worthless, and then literally beating the lesson home … I looked him in the eye and made him tell me how he knew I really felt about him. I doubt that my high opinion of him ever mattered more.

That’s just one example.

At other times, I love BDSM simply because it fucking feels good!

While I’m particularly drawn to intentionally therapeutic BDSM, a friend reminded me that not everything needs to have a “goal.” (Sigh. I love goals.)

But he’s right. That whole being in the moment thing … that’s goal enough.

You’ll never be in the moment as much as when you’re submitting to me.

I bet you’ll be turned on. You’ll feel alive. You’ll feel free.

Ready to get started? See my contact info, my rates, and what I expect when you email me.